3.11.2013

YW March: Atonement - What is Grace?

WHAT IS GRACE?



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You might ask yourself what brownies and pennies have to do with grace.  They don't have much to do with it actually, unless they are put into context.  I began my lesson handing out the paper envelopes with different amounts of pennies in them to each girl and leader.  They ranged from 2-9 pennies.  I told the girls that the brownies cost 10 cents and if any of them had 10 cents they could buy a brownie.  To their disappointment no one had 10 cents.  :( They could not pool together money and they could not earn money.  I told them we would see at the end of the lesson if there was any way that they could buy a brownie.  I got that idea from sugardoodle here.

We then looked up Grace in the Bible Dictionary.  I had the girls read this outloud and we wrote down what Grace is defined as. 

I wanted the girls to read and study and ponder about what grace means to them. I didn't want to just read to them quotes and stories I wanted them to read them and to search the scriptures. So after the introduction to Grace I started a "Silent Lesson".  I set up different stations around the room based on  a talk called "His Grace is Sufficient" by Brad Wilcox found here.  I thought it was much more age appropriate and the girls could better relate to it.  I also used the scriptures from the lesson found here.  They did this individually and I made enough copies of each station so that they could write on it/keep it/do whatever they wanted. We also have journals that we keep at the church for each girl so they carried those with them and wrote their answers and thoughts in those as well.

1st Station:  how does god's grace really work?  They read the section from the talk and wrote down their thoughts. 

2nd Station: Grace Helps us.  They read the section from the talk and Philippians 4:13 and Jacob 4:6-7.  I asked them to write how Grace can help them in their lives. I really liked this quote from this part of the talk:


"There should never be just two options: perfection or giving up. When learning the piano, are the only options performing at Carnegie Hall or quitting? No. Growth and development take time. Learning takes time. When we understand grace, we understand that God is long-suffering, that change is a process, and that repentance is a pattern in our lives. When we understand grace, we understand that the blessings of Christ’s Atonement are continuous and His strength is perfect in our weakness (see 2 Corinthians 12:9). When we understand grace, we can, as it says in the Doctrine and Covenants, 'continue in patience until [we] are perfected' (D&C 67:13)."

3rd Station: Grace transforms us.  They read the section from the talk and read Moroni 10: 32-33.  I asked them to think and write about How are we perfected? How can Grace transform your life?

My favorite quote from this part of the talk was:

"The miracle of the Atonement is not just that we can live after we die but that we can live more abundantly (see John 10:10). The miracle of the Atonement is not just that we can be cleansed and consoled but that we can be transformed (see Romans 8). Scriptures make it clear that no unclean thing can dwell with God (see Alma 40:26), but no unchanged thing will even want to.
The miracle of the Atonement is not just that we can go home but that—miraculously—we can feel at home there. If Heavenly Father and His Son did not require faith and repentance, then there would be no desire to change."


The 4th station: How Are We Saved?

They read from "True to the Faith" on Grace and Ephesians 2:8-9 and 2 Nephi 25:23. 

5th station:  they read the second part of "true to the faith" about receiving grace throughout their lives and why that would be important for them. 

I gave them 5-7 minutes at each station and then concluded to wrap up the penny object lesson.  I asked them to share what they had learned or any quotes that they liked.  I also asked them if they had thought of a way to get the extra money to buy a brownie.  After letting them think I asked them what happens when we make a mistake and have short comings?  Christ has already paid for the price for us to be able to be perfected.  Christ makes up for our short comings.  Even when its only 1 penny or as many as 8.  He is there for us and wants us to make it back to his presence.  But, we have to do our part.  Your part today was learning about grace.  Now all you have to do is ask for help.  I showed them the jar of extra pennies that I had and asked if they had thought to ask me for help.  Of course they all started asking for me to make up the difference and they were all able to buy a brownie.  The important part to stress in this object lesson is that we can't just be given grace.  We need to do our part and after we have done all that we can do, then christ will make up the difference and we will be perfected through him. 

I thought this was the easiest way to give this lesson on a somewhat deep topic relating to the atonement.  I think that through a silent lesson the girls were more keen to the spirit and what grace means and can do for them in their lives. 

3.06.2013

Life... as it was and as it is...

It's one of those nights where I'm supposed to be writing a 1600 word research paper on the constitution, but I've got way too much on my mind and must unload before I can load more into it!!!  Thank heavens my online 8 week political science crash course is done this Saturday at midnight.  I don't think I've ever had a more demanding class... intellectually and time-wise.  Holy Moly... this paper is going to be the death of me... Anyways here goes with the unloading...It seems like its been forever since I've blogged... partially because I could not remember what new email I created for it ha.. not good.  But at last I have found it and here I am.

Earlier this week I had the most random thing happen to me.  One of my old neighbors that I haven't heard from since I was in 9th grade.. so literally 10 years... contacted me on Facebook.  It's so strange what things start popping into your head when you think about what your life was like 10 years ago.  I started thinking about the late nights the kids in our neighborhood would spend at the park behind my house.  I started thinking about what SUMMER used to feel like.  What an amazing, magical time it was.  A complete break from everything.  You could be whoever you wanted to be, spend time with whoever and whenever.  Again.. . how magical were summer nights in middle school and high school???

I remember always cuddling up in a sweatshirt, but wearing short shorts and flip flops.  I remember talking so deeply and loving so freely.  I remember the best of times with my best friends, the Pink Pythongs and the B-52's.  I remember drive in movies, I remember back tickles, I remember jeep rides and fighting over driving Ian's Jetta, I remember movies on the side of houses, I remember dance offs to Black Eyed Peas, I remember high school dances, I remember the fourth of July, I remember the 24th of July, I remember meeting the most random people and forming friendships/relationships, I remember being boy crazy and fearless, I remember sneaking out, I remember Studio 600, I remember kill-bang-marry, I remember hot tubs and pools, I remember not having a care in the world.

Looking back, I don't think I would trade much.  I look back at the fun that I had and think about the person I am today because of the people I have met along the way.  I look back and think what decisions I could have made that would have prevented me from meeting and marrying my amazing husband.  I look back and think about how different my life would be and how I wouldn't want my life any other way than what it is right now.  As busy as I am.  As busy as Brad is.  As far away from home we are. From Friends. From Family. From our pasts and our future.  We are soooo happy and more importantly in love.  I know the decisions we made in our pasts may not have been perfect, but some of them couldn't have been more perfect in leading us to each other.  It's crazy how many different paths your decisions could take you down.  It's also crazy looking back that the decisions you made that put you on the right path to the greatest joy you could ever imagine.

Here's to good memories of love, friendship and magical summers! Here's to my old friends - Trista, Vannessa, Jessica, Ashlee, Jill, Celeste, and the B-52's... Just a little blast from the past. Miss you guys..









11.12.2012

Brad loves Groupon.  I benefit a lot from this love of his.  We have been able to go out a lot lately because he stocked up on Groupons from the summer time! Yes. And lately, our weekends have consisted of football, football, food (brought to you by Groupon) and more football.  We have season tickets to the U of A games and that has been a lot of fun.  The past 2 weeks were interesting though.. two weeks ago it was 90 degrees we got bad sunburns, ate snowcones and escaped to the shade for all of half time.  This past Saturday, we froze... (maybe I just froze...) and drank hot cocoa.  Regardless... the games are always a lot of fun to go to especially since Arizona wins now... compared to the last two years. 

One of our Friday night Groupon escapades we went to Downtown Kitchen.  Its this "hip" place where all the liberal old people go. haha just kidding lots of young liberals go there too.  :) But its delicious! Anyways... we were sitting out on the patio and the table next to us was this older couple probably 60-65 ish.  As we finished our meal we somehow engaged in conversation... The man was/is a "coach" for Covey.  They began to give us life lessons on how to keep our young love burning throughout our lives.  He was really sweet he kept saying how your spouse is your JOY.  Don't just put your joy to the side to finish things that seem "important".  They are what is important.  Everything else can wait.  They proceeded to tell us how each year when they were younger up until a few years ago when she became semi-paralyzed from a stroke, they would take turns and suprise each other with an anniversary trip.  They would set a budget, plan it and then let the other spouse know what to pack only ONE HOUR before leaving.  Talk about excitement! I really like this idea. If only I could ever suprise Bradley... Anyways I thought they were really sweet... Brad thought the whole thing was super weird.  haha

We have also been frequenting the swap meets here in town. Brad recently found out that one of them sells papusas (El Salvador deliciousness) so we had to check it out.  Seriously if you have never had papusas... its time to try them.  SOOO good.  Try the ones with zuccini inside them.  Corn tortilla like pouches (much thicker, doughier and crispy at the same time) filled with Cheese and whatever else you want.  Come on now, what's better than a pouch filled with cheese??? Needless to say we will definitely be going back. Except, the swap meets kind of terrify me... I'm convinced that at one of them someone was selling my laptop.  Dang robbers. 

What else is new.. We love our little Rox.  That's for sure.  She's totally a daddy's girl though.  Brad always tells me that "She has chosen her parent".  Great.  She has the funniest personality and has a bedtime routine.  When she was little and couldn't jump on our bed, she had this little pink bear she would put in her mouth and then stand there until Brad picked her up (daddy's girl since the beginning).   Now, she jumps up... lays on Brad's chest for a while... moves and cuddles between the two of us and then goes and sleeps between his feet.  Every morning she wakes him up by jumping on his chest and staring at him.  (yes we let our dog sleep with us... don't worry Brad bathes her once a week... she is very very clean). 

I've probably bored you to death... if anyone still reads this thing anyways! Better get to sleep now... too much to do tomorrow.. oh joy!

10.14.2012

Wow its been a long time... I sure have been one busy girl.  Trying to be the homemaker, bread winner and student is still not fun.  I finally quit working Saturdays at Wal-Mart!!! Hallelujah.  Best day of my life.  That was about 2 months ago. What do I do with my Saturdays now? Well I am crafting it up with Meghan! YAY and contrary to what Bradley thought I would be doing every Saturday, I don't think I have taken one Saturday nap yet! I think we are finally settling into our home... although nothing hangs on the walls.. really wierd for me... but we sure do love it here.

Halloween crafting! Meghan and I wanted to do a halloween wreath... So we went to the dollar store (which has super cheap wreaths) bought a few and supplies.. I bought 1 boa, a crow and we shared a roll of ribbon, a package of halloween rings (bats, spiders, etc.) and a package of black cheese cloth.  I found us the B at Joann's for about $3 and the rest is history.  It was sooo easy, fun and CHEAP!!!

We went to Utah for my parents 50th birthday and my mom bought my sister and I some crafts to do from the Wood Connection - So we spent some time painting the Wicked while there.  The K is glittery.  I love glitter!!!

When we got back to Tucson, Meghan and I did a set of bats that I bought from the Wood Connection as well.  Seriously... Check that store out.  It's AWESOME!!!

Pic from Mom and Dad's 50th Birthday!
We also did family pictures.. Notice how my mom is holding a pair of Sean's shoes???
 
 
We've been having fun and working hard... Only a few short months and Bradley and I will both be done with school. (FOREVER??) I hope... What will it be like not to be a student? We shall find out, I'm thinking its going to be absolutely glorious.
 
In other news... A TEMPLE IN TUCSON??? YAHOO! I am so excited for that! What a great general conference it was! We shared our home with lots of people.  There are 4 missionaries serving in our ward and we had them all over Sunday morning.  We ate a delicious breakfast and thanks to one of the Elders, I made (that's right... from scratch) the most delicious CINNAMON SYRUP.  I am never buying syrup again.  The recipe was seriously...
 
1/2 C Sugar
1/2 C Brown Sugar
2 T Flour
1 C Water
1 t Vanilla 
1/2 t Cinnamon.
Boil. Simmer. Done.
 
How easy? and Healthy - ier ?? I think most things that you make homemade are healthier than the store bough equivilant, but that's just me.  But seriously you should try to make some cinnamon syrup.  We had a plethora of food... Breakfast casseroles, mini pancakes with cinnamon syrup (can't get enough) strawberries and powdered sugar, bacon and delicious pumpkin donuts that Meghan made.  I love breakfast.  It's the best.  and it's especially the best when general conference and cinnamon syrup are involved. :)  
 
If you want to check out what General Conference is all about, click here. You know you want to. 

Kellyn's Baby Shower

cowBOYD Baby Shower
8/18/2012 
This is just a little late... considering its October.. Oops... and The little Baby Boyd has arrived! He sure is a cutie! But I've posted pictures of the cowBOYD - emphasis on the BOYD... (that's what they named the little guy... get the cowBOYD now??) Anyways.. We found a lot of ideas on pinterest of course... and had such a blast!
Mommy to be! Now a Mommy! 




Entryway....


The party favors were peanut butter filled pretzels! MMM...

One of the games we played was to guess how many peanuts were in the jar...
I squeezed 407 in that baby! 
We also did a photobooth... how do you not have a photobooth at a party these days???
Prizes for the games we played!
The whole group.. almost.
The other game we played was Don't Say Cute Baby Boy.  Everyone got sheriff badge necklaces and lost it if they said any of those words.  The only word that hurt anyone was cute.  Next time we will leave it to that! 

8.27.2012

ELDER Sean the Mon

WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!! today that is how Elder Sean Larson's email began.  Why??? Because some cute un-named girl sent him a letter.  Now I will keep the letters content private, but whoever you are... (since he wouldn't tell me who you are..) just know you made his day.  Don't worry... it was all kept confidential and out of the emails sent to the family! But today was a good day.  Every Monday since I am on the computer all day I try to watch for the second that I receive Sean's email.  And today it finally worked really well!!! As soon as I got his excited email I emailed him right back.  and to my surprise... He emailed me right back! Chatting through emails. IT WAS AWESOME.  I love that little brother of mine.  He is so funny and I miss his silliness and the way he can cheer you up instantly.  So here are the pictures he sent to us this week. The pictures aren't the greatest quality, but you can still kinda tell what's going on...

This is what he wrote me while we were "chatting"...


 Dion, I'm probably going to baptize 11 people this month. its so much fun here. we've had so many people coming to church its such a blessing. we have had 10 people in church 2 weeks in a row. that never happens! we found out how to get the couple divorced that I was telling you about and married to each other. They are gonna get baptized in a couple weeks when it all gets figured out.

This is what he had to say this week to the fam....

i dont really know what to say, but heres some pictures...
 welcome to mexico.....

tell doug and debbie thank you for the package. it was nice to have chocolates.
brad and diondra missed by a couple days. i wont get theres till next week when
the zone leaders go to cuernavaca.





this is my district at tarascos... the best restaurant in mexico.




 this is me and my comp, hes having another allergic reaction or

something again.

 we didnt what fruit this was.... so we picked it off the tree

and ate it. it didnt taste very good.

8.12.2012

4 YeArS.

Four Years.  Where does four years of marriage put us? I feel like we are now officially in the ALMOST stage... we are both ALMOST done with school.  We are ALMOST able to buy a home.  We are ALMOST able to start paying off loans.. oh joy.. haha you get the picture.

Anyways, this is a few weeks late, but Brad and I have been married for 4 years now!!! Seriously??? We went out to celebrate the weekend before our anniversary because life is just a little crazy for us.  But we went to this delicious fancy schmancy place called Anthony's in the Catalinas (the Catalinas are the foothills.. I'm telling ya.. it was fancy..) It was amazing though.  I had this delicious pork stuffed with cheese and Brad had what they called a sunfish.  He's adventurous. I'm not.  During dinner we talked about what our absolute favorite THING we have done so far in our marriage was.  Now, I hate deciding on one thing.  Seriously, ONE thing in 4 years? Yeah right.  So we made a compromise and both decided that our anniversary trips have been our favorite things... So in honor of mine and Bradley's favorite trips... here are pictures from each year... boy have we changed and grown up!!!  I can't imagine spending my life with anyone else.  I love this man more than anything in the world and am so happy that he is my hubby forever!!! He truly is so amazing, funny, charming, loving, sweet, my best friend, my everything.  He is such a hardworker and is achieving the goals he set a long time ago in order to support our future family! I can't wait for what this next year will bring and the for the rest of eternity with my Bradley.  


Dating=We were SOOO little! 2007
Engaged 2008
Wedding Day!
Honeymoon 
Honeymoon in Hawaii 2008

First Anniversary Trip to Cali 2009
Cali Trip 2009

2nd Anniversary 2010-Omni Resort Tucson, AZ
3rd Anniversary 2011-Ritz Carlton Dove Mountain Marana, AZ 
4th Anniversary Celebration - Anthony's in the Catalinas
(ignore the annoying glare on my glasses.. grrr.) 
Cruise 2012-"Anniversary Trip"